Friday, June 05, 2009

Afghani women


WOMEN WHO KNOW THEIR PLACE .......A point of view. Barbara Walters, of 20/20, did a story on gender roles in Kabul, Afghanistan, several years before the Afghan conflict. She noted that women customarily walked five paces behind their husbands. She recently returned to Kabul and observed that women still walk behind their husbands. Despite the overthrow of the oppressive Taliban regime, the women now seem to, and are happy to, maintain the old custom. Ms. Walters approached one of the Afghani women and asked, 'Why do you now seem happy with an old custom that you once tried so desperately to change?' The woman looked Ms. Walters straight in the eyes, and without hesitation said, "Land Mines." Moral of the story is (no matter what language you speak or where you go): BEHIND EVERY MAN, THERE'S A SMART WOMAN!

42 comments:

  1. Anonymous11:00:00 PM

    I'm here

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  2. Anonymous11:02:00 PM

    That is a true saying ,behind every man there is a good woman.Just ask Brian and GIl.hahaha

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  3. You know when I was younger and moved in the 'arty farty' community,drugs were everywhere.Yet,not many people became dependent.They were used recreationally.And except for cocaine , they weren't such hard drugs with the sophisticated chemistry that is available now.

    It seems,everyone uses something now.It frightens me.

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  4. Anonymous11:07:00 PM

    I listen to my older siblings,it was for relaxing and groovig ,just to get a feel good,not crazy.

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  5. People in movies or television don't have to work so hard or long as actors used to do before sattelite transmission and the internet.Someone can become world famous in a couple of seconds now.

    So, the youngsters who can't handle the fame haven't had enough time to get accustomed to it.

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  6. Anonymous11:10:00 PM

    They put so much crap into it,just to get you hooked,kids and all,what a pity...I get a little zonked sometime,I always know what I am doing.

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  7. They have a need for relaxation, peace and tranquility they can't find anymore in the usual ways.Not to mention a need for privacy.So I think that's ow they slip into drug or alcohol usage.

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  8. A little buzz from wine is not bad in moderation, in fact it's good for your heart.

    I bet you're funny when you're drunk.

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  9. Anonymous11:13:00 PM

    What excuse do the older ones use,mid-life crisis,a load of hog wash.

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  10. What about you Katherine? Do you fall off the bar stool?Sing songs?

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  11. My dad used to say it was his rheumatism medicine. He started drinking to escape from death,then he couldn't stop.

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  12. Katherine11:15:00 PM

    Oh heavens no, I am not a big drinker at all...I see what it does to my friends, no thanks!

    Sometimes wine with dinner is all I would do

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  13. I'm not sure if I had a mid-life crisis. I may have been bitchier for a while and just not noticed it.

    You better watch yourself Nee, it may hit you when you least expect it and start you acting crazy.

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  14. Anonymous11:18:00 PM

    Shit ,I'm funny when I'm not drunk,unless someone gets on my nerves...see you are good for me,the last fight I had was Feb.20
    When "M" was asking you what happen,I knew she was full of shit ,she should have known before us.

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  15. Oh, I remember it well.I wondered what the hell happened.All of a sudden you were spitting fire.When I heard why you were mad it made sense though.

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  16. Anonymous11:22:00 PM

    (GIGGLES) Gil says I have them once a month,remember the poem you wrote for him. A glass of wine is good ,2 glasses you better watch out.hahaha

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  17. Anonymous11:25:00 PM

    How is Jaye's book? Is her friend almost finished with the other project?

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  18. I haven't asked Jaye for a while about her book Now you've made me feel like a bad mother.

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  19. Anonymous11:29:00 PM

    They are coming along with the houe,still rains not everyday.be glad when they finish,so I can jump out at my man bucked-ass naked..hahaha he says if thats what I want to do,we can go to dad's suite.hahaha

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  20. Oh yeah, that penthouse would make a dandy love nest.You guys should go there just so you can scream and holler and dress up in costumes and screw the hell out of each other.

    I personally like the 'prison guard and the inmate' scenario.

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  21. Anonymous11:32:00 PM

    No you are not,you enjoyed her the last 2/3 weekends,went shopping,did girly things,you just enjoyed your baby.
    Well I have another neice that's younger than me,the others is Chris Kids.

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  22. Anonymous11:38:00 PM

    Well it will be fun,the doctor says I shouldn't get preggie ,because of age,I luck out twice not to push my luck.he said it was better for him to get fixed than me.So he had a little nip-tuck.

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  23. Jaye and I used to go out together more,when she used to live around the corner from me.Now she lives in the next town and also,she stopped driving.She had a bad accident (wasn't hurt too badly)and she didn't like driving after that.So, it means I have to do all the visiting unless Peter has time off.

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  24. Anonymous11:42:00 PM

    Jeannie
    Did you get your package? Will get you some kids as soon as we get to my uncle's office. Just getting in from shopping talk more later. Hey Nee Nan

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  25. That was great of Gil to get the vasectomy.It's more complicated and painful for a gal to get the tubal ligation.
    I had to get the TL. Brian just couldn't do it.

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  26. Yes,thankyou Nan.It was great to see her.I look forward so much to seeing the kids and you too.

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  27. Anonymous11:45:00 PM

    You have the twins a lot,but I forgot they are your babies,those are beautiful boys,their eyes just twinkle.

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  28. Nan,do you look like Nee???

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  29. I think that Jakey would fall in love with you.You wouldn't get him off you.Sammy would be shy but worship you from afar.

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  30. Anonymous11:53:00 PM

    The doctors told him it was better if he got a vasectomy ,because I am so sweet.hahaha

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  31. Anonymous11:57:00 PM

    Nope ,I don't look like any of them,you can tell we are siblings,I am dark,they are mucher lighter ,Chris is dark a little,I am the only one that looks like my mama.

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  32. Anonymous12:01:00 AM

    Oh yes ,I love those dark bedroom eyes,but I think my baby have beat me to him,she told Sharon he was her size because he was the smallest,Sam was her's because he was bigger....Susan ask Gil did he hear them...He said yes,one thing he was sure of they wasn't gay..she can't stand my man.

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  33. I forgot to tell you that Jason, who totalled his car and apparently ran a red light, according to a witness, has denied running the light,says it was entirely the old man's fault(In the other car) is fighting it in court.He's a spunky youngster.He ain't afraid of anyone.
    He gave his grandpa his solemn word that he did not run the light and hit the old man's car.

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  34. Why doesn't Susan like Gil? He sounds lovable to me.

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  35. Anonymous12:07:00 AM

    I would love them,I know your family,2 boys 3 girls,lets see if I can name them.Boys first.
    Steve/Alan now girls...Jane/Karen?Jaye. I got to many for you to remember.hahahahah

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  36. Anonymous12:09:00 AM

    check your epmail before you retire.

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  37. A gold star for you . You got them all right.
    I'll go check right now.Shall we call it quits for now?

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  38. Got it.Check yours.Have a good night and dream of your housewarming party.What a beautiful house it will be and filled with love and happiness...God Bless...PIC

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  39. Anonymous12:22:00 AM

    I believe him,why should he lie,and to fight it in court,I hope Brian believe him< I will fight till the end if I know I was right.

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  40. Anonymous12:23:00 AM

    Katherine are you still here,let me hear you girl.Do you have siblings?

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  41. Anonymous12:25:00 AM

    Good nite sweetie I will meet you around the bend....LOVE YA ...NEE

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  42. Katherine12:33:00 AM

    CC

    Sorry for my absence...was on the phone...:)

    I am all alone in the world as we say. No siblings, both parents gone now. I have been on my own for a long time now...:)

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